Friday, February 28, 2014

To Love and Be Loved In Return.

It is not true that ‘to know someone is to love them;’ sometimes to know someone is to run screaming in the other direction as fast as your feet will carry you! It is true, however, that ‘to love someone is to know them,’ know them like the back of your hand, like a part of your own heart, like a well-worn pair of boots that slip smoothly on your feet ...for how could it be possible to love someone in ignorance? It’s not. We must know what we give our love to, otherwise we’re not really loving what, or whom, we think we’re loving.

Ever had a conversation with a family member, a friend, even someone you deeply and romantically love, only to come away with the realization that those who are supposed to know you best …sometimes don’t know you at all? There is an incredible yearning in the human heart, a core desire driving away at us, to know and be known— our hearts full and joyous with knowledge of another, our souls complete in some way, whole in some way, because of the intimate knowledge another possesses. This, I believe, is a divine desire: an illustration of what Solomon meant when he said, “He has ...set Eternity in the hearts of men; yet they cannot fathom what God has done from beginning to end” {Eccl. 3:11b}.

I don’t think it’s a joyless resignation to say no matter how passionately we pursue this goal it will never be finally fulfilled in Time. In fact, in a fallen world full of fallen wills {Rom. 8:18-25}, it’s not even possible to have it fulfilled now. Not in the sense for which Abba intended it, not the way in which it will be when we stand before our King, our Hero, the Savior and Lover of our souls, and He peers into the very core of our being, past all the lies and hypocrisy, past all the posing and posturing, past all our jockeying for positions of prominence in His Kingdom, past the wounds, the weariness, the hurts and betrayals, past the long nights of loneliness and sunny days of short-lived bliss, past every moment we excluded Him from because ‘we had it all together’— locked down, buttoned up, retirement socked away, money in the mattress, another man or woman waiting in the wings to replace the one we’re with— past all the details and distractions which deceived us for decades on end, keeping us from laying our hearts in humility at his feet. Past all the rhetoric and straight to the reality of you …of me …of us.

Scripture paints for us this magnificent picture of a deeply relational reality to come in 1 Corinthians 13:12. The Apostle writes, “Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now [‘At this moment,’ in this day, in this Age] I know in part; then [in the Eternity to come] I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.” Mmmhhhhmm… that’s it. “I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.” This what we’ve been searching for all our days. This is the fleeting shadow, the ever-elusive prey we’ve been trying to capture in every conversation, every fumbling attempt at friendship, every intimate encounter of our lives. This.

There is a moment in the Ages of Eternity when, “face to face” with the Lord of Glory, we will know Him as He has always known us. Try and grasp just for a moment the depth of intimacy and understanding being expressed here. A knowledge of God unlike anything you can possibly imagine in Time, and a ‘being known’ by God, by a kind and compassionate Presence, a strong and loving Other, a perfect and powerful Father. To “know fully, even as I am fully known.” And what we’ve looked for all our days, what we’ve longed for all our lives, hour after hour, hammering away at volume after volume of Scripture, theology, spirituality, ethics, the technicalities of Greek and Hebrew, devotional materials as rich as rainfall and doctrinal materials as dry as August dust, will finally be ours. A communion with our Creator beyond anything we can yet imagine, Eden come again, Paradise regained.

This is the world we were made for… this is the Life we were meant to live… this is our destiny, to be eternally surrendering ourselves to Perfection, endlessly submersing our wills in the Water of Life. This is who we’ll be and where we’ll be— forevermore. May you have a very, merry celebration of Jesus’ Incarnation.

Ric Webb, Shepherd
Heart's Journey Community
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Wednesday, February 26, 2014

The Danger in Following Self-Appointed Saviors.

George Orwell once said, “Sooner or later, a false belief bumps up against a solid reality.” This from a writer who, beginning his career as a Socialist / Communist, understood very well the tyranny of those who are convinced they alone are right and thus, by default, everyone else must be wrong. And since wrong, these same ones must be corrected, herded, and directed by those who know better than they what’s good for them. The last thing “they” need is a taste of Freedom and of Life.

This reminds me of so many men and women I’ve known through the years within our particular ‘movement’ of Faith who were utterly convinced their ‘way’ of doing things— be it their theology, their attitude toward others who differed some way spiritually, or their very approach to teaching or worshiping or serving or praying— was the only way. There could be no other. “God cannot work in ways other than those of which I have personally approved.” It may not be overtly stated in terms this bold, but something very similar is going on beneath the surface of the soul when arrogance and self-centred ambition are having their way with us. So, think about this mindset for just a moment ...then get a nice, long, hearty laugh out of it.

How grateful we all must be that after two thousand years of getting it wrong, Abba has sent us a new set of saviors so we can finally ‘get it right.’ It would be hilarious, if not for the unbelievable arrogance it exemplifies. I think a healthy prayer might be, “O Lord, whatever You do in all our lives to break down the barriers between us and You ...save us from ourselves. {And while You’re at it, save us from our self-appointed saviors… please.} Amen.”

Ric Webb, Shepherd
Heart's Journey Community
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Saturday, February 22, 2014

Grace Is the Attitude of Gratitude.

The Spirit of God inspired the apostle Paul to command the Lovers of Jesus to “rejoice always, pray continually,” and “give thanks in all circumstances,” saying, “for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” {NIV}. The Message has, “pray all the time; thank God no matter what happens. This is the way God wants you who belong to Christ Jesus to live.” Meaning with thankful hearts in all things, with attitudes of ceaseless gratitude for the wonder of the world He created, and for the beauty and majesty of Life in His Kingdom.

It has long been recognized by even casual observers of human life and conduct that those who choose to live with gratitude and express their appreciation find a joy and pleasure which much of the world seems to miss. These are some of the evidences of it.

“The root of joy is gratefulness.... It is not joy that makes us grateful; it is gratitude that makes us joyful”— David Steindl-rast.

“I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought, and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder”— G.K. Chesterton.

“For each morning with its light,
For rest and shelter of the night,
For health and food, for love and friends,
For everything Thy goodness sends”— Ralph Waldo Emerson.

Epictetus, the Greek slave turned Stoic philosopher, said, “He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.”

“We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures” — playwright and novelist Thornton Wilder.

“The struggle ends when the gratitude begins”— Neale Donald Walsh.

There is an Estonian proverb which says, “Who does not thank for little will not thank for much.” As fully evidenced by post-modern America’s ‘entitlement mentality’ = regardless of how you play the Game… everybody gets a trophy!

“Courtesies of a small and trivial character are the ones which strike deepest in the grateful and appreciating heart”— Henry Clay.

“Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it”— William Arthur Ward.

“Thou hast given so much to me,
Give one thing more— a grateful heart;
Not thankful when it pleaseth me,
As if Thy blessings had spare days,
But such a heart whose pulse may be Thy praise”
— George Herbert.

And one last embodiment of the spirit of thankfulness. “With arms outstretched I thank. With heart beating gratefully I love. With body in health I jump for joy. With spirit full I live”— Terri Guillemets. To the extent it is within my power, if I am at all able… this is how I choose to live.

Ric Webb, Shepherd
Heart's Journey Community
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Saturday, February 1, 2014

Wise Entries In the Cultural Conversation

“Never confuse a single defeat with a final defeat”— F. Scott Fitzgerald.

“The trouble about man is twofold: He cannot learn truths which are too complicated; he forgets truths which are too simple”— Rebecca West. Lord have mercy, how truthfully simple this is. And how simply truthful!

“People worry about kids playing with guns or watching violent videos. Nobody worries about kids listening to thousands, literally thousands, of songs about heartbreak, rejection, pain, misery and loss”— English novelist and essayist Nick Hornby.

This one’s for all those ‘mountain-out-of-a-mole-hillers’ slithering in the reeds, otherwise known in our post-modern mess as drama kings and queens. Winston Churchill once said, “When a man cannot distinguish between small and great events, he is of no use.” We made a pact among us this Wednesday night, our small band of brave brothers and sisters, to kindly but genuinely reply the next time someone says something ridiculously stupid, wants to throw a hissy and make a major out of a minor: “Is this really the hill you want to die on?”

For those still refusing to acknowledge that they live in a much Larger Story than the socio-dramas {read ‘soap operas’} playing out at work, or at school, in their neighborhoods or deep in the nest of resentments swirling in their souls, I offer the words of Norman Cousins. “The tragedy of life is not death, but what we allow to die within us while we are yet still alive.”

And finally, I’ve saved perhaps the best for last. “The root of joy is gratefulness.... It is not joy that makes us grateful; it is gratitude that makes us joyful”— David Steindl-rast. Amen and amen.

Ric Webb, Shepherd
Heart's Journey Community
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